Everyone may experience obsessive thoughts from time to time, and many of us have particular quirks or preferences that might qualify as compulsions. It is common for someone to “cyber stalk” their ex-partner in an attempt to get emotional closure at the end of a relationship, for example. Many children and adults are fussy about the different types of foods on their plates, preferring them to not touch each other. Whilst these are common examples of obsessive thoughts and compulsions, these are not generally debilitating conditions.
OCD is diagnosed after a series of medical and psychiatric exams and is determined by how much the fears and obsessions interfere with day-to-day life. If the obsessive thoughts and compulsive routines take up more than one hour a day, cause emotional distress, or interfere with daily tasks, then a diagnosis of OCD is sure.